Stay Connected To Your Kids When Traveling

Stay Connected To Your Kids When Traveling

Dear Dr. Graham:I’m writing this from yet another hotel room. My work requires me to be on the road a lot. While that didn’t bother me or my spouse in the past, we now have three young children. I worry a bit that the kids have gotten used to me being gone. I...
Give up false guilt

Give up false guilt

Dear Dr. Graham:I feel guilty all the time. I feel guilty when I don’t spend enough time at work. When I work long hours, I feel guilty about not spending enough time at home. I feel guilty when my work product isn’t as good as it could be if I had more hours to spend...
We’re All Just Figuring It Out As We Go…

We’re All Just Figuring It Out As We Go…

Dear Dr. Graham: I need your advice about what to do next. I’d like to apply for an open position at my company, but I hesitate to put my hat in the ring. I meet most of the criteria for the role, but not all. In addition, even though I’ve completed a lot of formal...
Outsourcing… at home

Outsourcing… at home

Dear Dr. Graham: How can I be so successful at managing a large corporation’s accounting and finance organization, yet fail so dreadfully at managing life with a husband, two kids, a dog, and a house? Take last night. After cooking a healthy dinner (which both...
What is your word for 2019

What is your word for 2019

While we all know about New Year’s resolutions, all the resolution-related research tells us that such goals don’t make much of a difference. Once most people get past January, the general adherence to a long list of resolutions is very small. That’s why my challenge...